The best sex – it’s what you don’t say.

When speaking with a friend recently, we found “let’s come together!” particularly off-putting.  It’s not always easy to orchestrate, you lose focus and think less about your own orgasm and more about being perfectly in sync that you lose any chance of climaxing.   For me, the best sex isn’t just about confidence, attraction and…

Can you be nice and sexy?

This year I’ve learnt that although personality is important, it’s not absolutely crucial and looks are more important than I anticipated. I’ve been seeing a guy for a few months now and we’ve progressed into boyfriend / girlfriend territory.  According to mutual friends, he had been keen for a while, so we met at social gatherings,…

No, I don’t want to see your penis.

“Dick pics” are only acceptable in two situations: when sent by 18 year old guys, who are naive enough to believe girls like looking at a veiny willy, or when sent by an established boyfriend and the girlfriend genuinely wants to see that. It is not acceptable to send a dick pic when you are…